2021...
The story starts when I moved to London from Manchester for university. Whilst I was there, one of my closest friends at the time got broken up with and I felt helpless being half way across the country. I wanted a way to show her that I'm thinking of her and that I'm still supporting her even if I wasn't able to be there physically. I started looking for gift boxes that could be posted, but I wanted one specifically for breakups and I had an idea of the type of items I wanted to be in the box. After scouring the internet, I mostly found gift boxes for any occasion, or if they were advertised as being for breakups, I found the products inside were still quite generic. After I decided to send a candle and processco bouquet instead, the idea to make breakup gift boxes was planted in my mind!
2022...
I still had the idea of making breakup gift boxes but I was busy living life and I was in a relationship. Then suddenly half way through the year, my relationship came to an end in one of the worst ways. I thought this would be the perfect time to start making breakup gift boxes since I was actively going through one. I tried as best as I could, however my head wasn't in the right place and I decided to focus on myself for a bit first and prioritise healing. I began person-centred therapy but then had to work extremely hard to develop and maintain healthy habits in my life, on my own, outside of therapy. I knew that was the only way I'd reap the benefits so I spent a lot of time doing my own research and finding what works best for me.
2023...
Once I started to feel like myself again, I began turning an idea into reality and started developing The Breakup Essentials. I decided to shift the focus of the gift box from the breakup itself, to moving forward as a single, independent girl who is finding herself again. I've endlessly searched for products that relate to the self-care activities that helped me feel better, and started the process of getting my life back on track after experiencing heartbreak. Now I want to share what helped me in the hopes it helps someone else. The gifts inside won't be a cure, but whether you're buying the box for yourself or for a loved one, I hope it brings even a little happiness.

This year and beyond...
I know SO many girls will be in the same position as me, some just starting, some further along in their journey. No matter where you're up to, I want to show you that you're not alone and you will find love and happiness again - most importantly within yourself.
​This is more than gifts, on Instagram & TikTok I will be sharing all things self-love and wellbeing, and my dm's will ALWAYS be open if you need someone to talk to. It's also a place for you to share your thoughts and emotions with others who are feeling the same way.
​There's also loads of new products to come and I'm so excited to have you along on this journey!
​We'll get through this together. 
Love, Mel x